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Balinese
Life
They Do Not Intend
to Become Super Women!
Village administrations
in Bali are divided into two, namely the
customary village (desa pekraman) and administrative
village (desa dinas). The former is pertaining
to any affairs that has something to do
with Hindu society, its village temple,
social interaction and its environment.
Meanwhile the latter, is an institution
that has relation to the performance of
government affairs at village level.
Balinese
women, actually, have a great role and responsibility
in a family. Apart from managing the household
tasks including taking care of children
and husband, they must also participate
in some activities in both institutions
mentioned above. Therefore, they should
allocate their time wisely.
In family life, women also help their husband
to earn a living. They never discriminate
kinds of jobs, ranging from farming, road
construction, and traditional art up to
executive level depending on their skill.
If they work in the office in the morning,
they will make their time to do others in
the afternoon. If they are deeply involved
in certain professions, they may not neglect
other compulsory and voluntary activities
in their environs.
As the desa pakraman is responsible for
organizing temple festivals and any other
rites of passage in Hindu religion, so all
members should attend and take part in these
events. Both domiciles inside and outside
the village have the same rights and duties.
Such social activities then can be categorized
into two, firstly, ngayah (compulsory activity)
that is an activity by invitation (arah-arah)
whether for village temple festivals, individual
ritual ceremonies or others. Members who
fail to attend will be charged a certain
amount of penalty as decided as the norm.
The word ngayah also refers to different
meanings like special devotion to gods in
village ceremonies through dances, recital
songs et cetera. Secondly is nguopin (voluntary
or spontaneous activity) where members will
not be invited and organized. It is based
on members accord, but they usually
feel uneasy when they do not attend it.
Practically in socio-religious activities,
women have rather the same workload as men.
Women have to prepare offerings, whilst
men prepare its raw material and others
that cannot be done by women. So other than
household work, women also have to attend
social activities as the village member
or krama adat. By doing so they can get
in touch with other members to strengthen
the neighborhood, meet new members of krama
adat (newly married from outside the village).
Through this, they are also reminded that
wherever they live or domicile they are
still tied by their home village.
In administrative villages, women also have
an organization called PKK group (Education
for Family Welfare). It is an organization
meaning to empower women participation in
development programs. Through this program,
they can learn how to manage the household,
care for children, look for additional earning
through home industry like producing various
cakes. In short, even though they should
be able to do the tasks mentioned above,
it does not mean that they intend to become
super women. (Wayan Punia)
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